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How has your life changed since starting college?

13.06.2025 10:04

How has your life changed since starting college?

From my daily arguments with dad to missing him.

In PG, I met 5 other girls from my classroom, and from the start, I kept my expectations low and was sure that I did not fit in with them, so I kept my distance, and my only connection in college was my roommate at that time.She advised me multiple times to hang out with that group. I made it clear to her that it was not right for my well-being to spend time with people with whom I feel uncomfortable.

Now, I am living 300km away from my family.I miss them.

What are your funniest "lost in translation" moments if you grew up speaking more than one language?

From watching news at breakfast- to sharing news on calls

In 12th, I struggled to focus on my studies.I didn’t want to take the science stream but had to and wasn’t doing well. As if it wasn’t enough my father transferred to some other city and I was not happy with it.

made friends

How do people move on so quickly? I’m still sprung over someone I was dating and he found someone else so fast. I feel hurt because I’m still head over heels over him while he’s out enjoying his life with someone new

How has your life changed since starting college?

From bothering mom 24/7 to videocalling mom and describing how my day went.

In college, I met many people who were faking behaviors in order to look cool, and they still do. This 'pick me' behavior irritates me the most.

What would it take for you to consider yourself a "Swiftie" like Flavor Flav?

I felt frustrated, occasionally venting at my family and used to have panic attacks.

The fact that groups break up after the first year is correct.

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Why do most Indian women cuckold or cheat on their husbands?

There are many students who can’t go home frequently because of issues like long distance, travelling issues etc..I can feel their pain.

Let’s come to the answer.

I am happy I found them, but the scared half of me always reminds me to be ready for heartbreaks, and I don't expect much.

Summer here, the one who debunks atheism. Isn’t it funny how atheists always say they prefer a “no-nonsense, evidence-based approach” to understanding the world, but when I bring up logical arguments for theism, they suddenly clam up?

From fighting with sister on small things to fighting on calls/texting.

I met a lot of fake people and learned how to deal with them.

Backstory-

Why do most men who date ugly women brag like it's some big accomplishment, when any guy can pull an ugly woman?

From being at home 24*7 to going home for a few days in 2–3 months.

I have huge respect for their knowledge and dedication to teaching.I consider myself lucky to be able to learn from such experts in their respective fields.

Many people used to believe that I would not be able to do so, but I did.

How come I can't stay sober?

Note- You can skip to the main part.

It will be a year since I started college, so I thought I should share my experience with you.

For example, many of my collegemates didn’t know what UGC was. The girl who was my senior and was sitting beside me didn’t know that Guide is written by R.K. Narayan. She was going to tick Chetan Bhagat as the answer before I stopped her.

What do men like to be given for their birthday?

-Hitesha.

I’ve realized the real value of money.

I lacked friends in 12th class,I didn’t understand a single thing those teachers were teaching and used youtube and educational subscriptions for learning.

What one thing makes someone a very mature person?

Going away from that place was my only wish at that time.I had no exposure to the outside world and I knew if I continued my further studies there, I would gain nothing.

From eating freshly cooked, hot and healthy food prepared by mom with love and care to eating pg’s carelessly made tasteless food.

All I meant to say is that if you are fully skilled, know everything, and still have no confidence, You will be considered nothing, but if you have confidence, people will see it as a plus, and this will provide a better opportunity for the future.

What are some good Caribbean islands to travel to with friends or family? Why?

I witnessed people with no understanding becoming successful simply because they were confident enough to stand on stage and perform.They arrived, performed, and it was finished. Their performance was not that good; it could have been better, yet people applauded as if it were the best.

I’ve become more responsible.

I found amazing mentors in my professors.

I still have doubts about myself, have a lot to work on my personality and need to work hard. I will keep trying to see positivity around me and I wish you would do the same.

Confidence is the key.

My roommate soon understood this and stopped hanging out with them before it was too late.Now I have a trio: myself, my roommate, and one of the five girls-who faced the same situation as us.Our vibes matched.

Thanks for reading my answer.

I have never stayed away from home before this but now I live in a pg with the worst management, manage my own chores, and travel alone.